This is how it should work (at least for the first few dates). Guy meets girl. Guy says to girl: “What can I get you to drink?” Guy buys girl drink. End of story. A quality girl will do three things: 1. Say thank you 2. Not order a top-shelf, triple-shot drink 3. Offer to buy a second or third round, or whatever else later that night. If she doesn’t do these things that means either the girl isn’t so into you OR she’s not that quality a girl and will continue her selfish and high maintenance behavior down the road. Same thing goes for dinner. If she’s a quality girl, she won’t pick the most expensive restaurant or the most expensive item on the menu and will offer to do her part.

Guys buying the dinner/drinks is not only sexy, but fair. Why? If you add up all the time, pain and money that we spend to look good for your benefit you have to admit it’s a fair trade. Here’s just a short list: waxing, bleaching, perfumes, shoes, clothes, accessories, working out, shaving, shoes, manicures, lingerie, make-up, lotions, tweezing, etc.

Also, even though we may be very “independent women” and likely will pay for much of the load down the road, we do like to know that you can and are willing to take care of us. Paying is proof positive that you are willing and able to be the provider.

Look, you don’t have to think it’s fair, but sometimes earning those sexy points may cost you a pretty penny. The best defense for your wallet? Learn how to weed out the quality girls from the blood-sucking, money-mongering hootchies early on. Disagree? I would love to hear about it. . .