Over the next few weeks, we’ll be counting down the top turn-ons of women worldwide.

#5 The Right Touch. Maybe we like it rough in bed, but it’s the gentle, soft touches that will get us there. Take note - gentle and brief are the key. Make me beg for more. These can be done with the most finesse when in a loud or crowded area. When you lean in to tell me something, touch my elbow, back or arm. Remember to shake things up. If you’re putting your hands all over me all the time, it comes off as needy and desperate. On the other hand, if you don’t touch me at all, I might question whether you are attracted to me and/or straight. Here are some all-star moves on her hot spots. . .

*Back: Gently put one hand on my lower back when we’re walking. For double the impact, while opening the door to a restaurant with your left hand, gently put your right hand on my back to guide me in. Don’t push.

*Waist: This one works best in a crowded place or when dancing. If you just randomly stick your hand on my waist, you can fumble. You can come up behind me when I’m standing at the bar or talking to a friend, gently put your hands on my waist and whisper something in my ear.

*Hand: If your holding my hand give it a light squeeze. Or, just grab my hand for a moment. . .but only when its within reach. If you try and make a move across the table you will most likely spill something and weird me out at the same time. If you’re holding my hand, you can also rub your thumb on my hand. Motion is your friend!

*Knee/Leg: If we’re sitting close to each other, you can rest your hand on my leg briefly while we’re talking. Or, to make a point, give a gentle squeeze. It will give me the shivers.