I know it’s very tempting. Women on the rebound are attractive prey. They’re vulnerable. They crave attention. Best of all, they lower their standards to fill the void. Do you pounce? First, consider the ups and downs of dating women on the rebound.
Plus: Nice guys have the advantage. This is one of those rare situations when nice guys actually win. Women on the rebound are less picky and will go for the reliable, caring considerate guys over money, smarts and raw animal magnetism. It’s like an internship. If you’re willing to do the bitch work and be the shoulder to cry on for a while, you may end up getting the job of boyfriend.
Minus: She’s a flight risk. I’m sure you know those couples that break up and get back together every other month. You can choose to be her fill in the blank. But, do you want to risk falling for the girl only to be discarded when Paco rears his ugly, cheating head again and woos your lady back into his clutches?
Plus: They are horny. With a capital H. After a few consecutive months (or a few consecutive years) of getting laid consistently, going dry for a week will drive her nuts. She’ll be ready to jump the first available guy that drops his pants.
Minus: All the baggage you can carry. You’re used to women being emotional and sensitive -- but you’ll be hitting her at her lowest point. She’ll probably want to talk. And cuddle a lot. There could be some crying as well. Maybe a little weight gain. Some more crying. Oh, the humanity.
Plus: Your can do no wrong. Just about. You know all that stupid shit you say and those dumbass moves that usually make you bomb on the first date or in the bar scene. With women on the rebound, you can pretty much be yourself and not get rejected because having you around is better than nothing. Take advantage of the short time frame when women lower their guard and use this opportunity to impress her with whatever you got.
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Posted by: blogintro at April 12, 2006 11:06 AMI usually wait a week or so, however this brings up the problem of some other lad asking her out...its all about timing
Posted by: L89 at April 25, 2006 12:18 PMdamn, i needed this advice a month ago :/
but im glad ive found this site now
Posted by: steph at November 29, 2006 10:35 PMI have found that if you are looking for a one night stand, these are the best girls to go for. Tell them they are beautiful, add a little alcohol, and the night should end right.
Posted by: A Guy at December 2, 2006 07:12 PM
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